How to appear different and more promising than others?

Being distinguished and extra ordinary among a multitude is  a necessity in this new era. I, you and all the other folks out there are in a race to touch the winning bow to cherish our respective lifestyles.

But what things actually matter to be more alluring and what it all takes to set a promising image of ourselves in the society?

So, here we have four pillars of this image building concept :-

1.Confidence

Your energy introduces you even before you speak. A confident face is the best make-up to put on. Just think yourself as a recruiter and think of a person with great knowledge and depths but is unable to express himself and lacks in keeping is idea. I am sure that there is no way you going to take that fellow for your task.

Also there should not be any stereotype in our mind that we can not do this stuff, created on any basis like gender, age, strength etc. Basically one should not limit himself to an extent.

             According to a survey of Psychology Today, a leading magazine on psychology says that 'confidence is as important as an ability'. It has also shown how people use the stereotypes set by the world to scratch themselves back from performing some task. You may refer to the link provided to the article for more details.

Confidence Matters Just as Much as Ability | Psychology Today

2.Communication skills

The way one speaks, reflects the mindset of the person. Just look around you, what type of people surrounds you and analyze how you need to talk to them and how to react on their actions. 

The most dangerous threat of this skill is the anger. It is already been proven that an angry person's statement can lead to his own death. Also this skill can be developed just like learning how to ride a bicycle. 

There are some great words spoken by the legend Gerald R. Ford, 

" Nothing in life is more important than the ability to communicate effectively."

3.Be a Good Listener

Without this feature in ourselves, we are like a blind man in a movie show. Listening to others not just make you patient but also let you know what is need of the time right now. It enables you to make decision by viewing all the aspects from all the people.

 Also hearing about a scenario from different people provides you different angle to the same scenario which allows you to make decisions more precisely. 

It is righty said that the most dangerous person in a room is the one who listens to everything. Being a good listener, gives a attentive and observant impression of you to the mass, which definitely makes you a catchy person. 

4.The Appearance

What do we mean by Appearance? 

Lots of thoughts, lots of answer but here it is the overall view of a person at first sight. Remember the thing that affects the most to make you distinguished from a crowd is your first look. You need to be a proper judge on how you need to be present at different situations in different outfits. 

             Am I referring to accessories, expensive equipments, jewels? Definitely a big NO.

All you need is decency in your own style. As there is a lot more to talk about it so I'm gonna cover it in my next blog.

Do let me know in the comment section what do you understand by the term PERSONA? Also let me know what enhancement should I make with my upcoming blogs.

Thank You for your precious time.

love yourself, love life and just Be You!!

      

 sachet.praveer